I have to say that I am definitely not a perfect mom and I have been out of the loop since my next youngest is 7 years old. But I am learning along the way. I think this time around because I am older that I have more patience and am definitely calmer. I also have learned from other mothers and the daycare teachers on what works.

I am a true believer in daycare. Don't get me wrong, there is nothing better than a mother's love but not everyone is blessed with a husband that makes enough for them to stay at home comfortably. I have to work, I like to be an adult and have something else to worry about instead of playdates and diapers. I also think my children have learned more and acquired skills quicker because they had other kids to learn from. Case in point, my youngest was just moved into the one year old room last week. He is already pulling up and standing; he will even walk with assistance. He was not even attempting to do all this two weeks ago. On the other side of the spectrum my sister's oldest is 3 and on last check is still wearing diapers and not potty trained. She is a stay at home child and rarely has interactions with other children to see that using the potty is what she should do. So this leaves my sister to deal with two kids in diapers. I feel for her because that has got HARD!

My husband and I are still learning and we don't claim to perfectjust doing our best and making sure our kids are well-loved!